“The Enneagram and Sexuality” with Lyndsey Fraser

To mature and evolve as a human being it is imperative to work towards awareness, acceptance, and integration of every aspect of the self, including looking at topics that are taboo in our society. Sexuality is one of these topics! Many of us are unaware of the role of sexuality in our lives, and often lack the tools to talk about it—but it impacts us every day, even if we don’t realize it.

Human sexuality is fundamental to life. It is a universal part of our humanity, yet there are few tools that incorporate or even acknowledge sexuality as an aspect of our psycho-spiritual development. At its core, the Enneagram is a sacred tool used to cultivate wholeness and union; as such, it is imperative that we look at sexuality as part of our psycho-spiritual development.

When we start to look at sexuality as a part of this development, we can understand the role the Nine Enneagram Types (and instinctual biases) play in sexuality, resulting in more compassion for the self. 

About Lyndsey Lyndsey is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, and an International Enneagram Association (IEA) Accredited Enneagram Professional. She has presented on the intersection of the Enneagram, relationships, and sexuality in various U.S. and international forums. She is one of the few sex therapists in the world working explicitly with the Enneagram. Lyndsey also has had a private practice for the last twelve years in South Minneapolis where she specializes in relationships and sexuality utilizing the Enneagram.